Showing posts with label honeymoon. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honeymoon. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Das Friendymoon: Things I Take For Granted

You know.. things like clean water. Because.. Mexico isn't exactly known for it.

Well, clearly. I mean, we've all seen Sex And The City.


No, this didn't happen to me (or anyone else).. but we all definitely had some encounters with our respective bathrooms at some point or another. A really wonderful, awesome bit of advice? Stock up on probiotics. They do wonders if your stomach's feeling a bit.. grumbly. You know what I mean.

Anyhoot, my point in even mentioning this is that there was no filtered water where we stayed (is there usually any at resorts??). We got our drinking water from our fridge via this immaculate set up we had going on in the closet behind it:


It not only served as our drinking water, but our "cleaning" water as well. Almost everything fresh that we put in our mouths - whether it would eventually be cooked or not - needed to soak for a good 15 minutes in a solution of filtered water and iodine. Think: apples, tomatoes, potatoes, lettuce, shrimp, etc.


Time consuming, for sure, but you definitely knew if you didn't soak something long enough or well enough. (Like I said.. probiotics are your best friend!)

Lucky for us, the owner of the house we stayed at would supply us with more water when it was necessary. Where he got it from, though, was pretty interesting - there were these men who consistently rode around on the streets on these bike/tram things selling bottles full of freshly filtered water, and then they would take back the empty ones to later be refilled. They rang their little bike bells at all hours of the day (starting around 7am.. not so cool) and were honestly almost sold out of water every time we saw them come by our place. It may have been a process, but they have that system down to a tee - and it's undoubtedly necessary. Especially when you consider the fact that you need to also use said filtered water to wet your toothbrush and brush your teeth, lest you want to spend the next five hours on the toilet. That shit cray.

So staying on the topic of water.. let's talk about warm water. Or the lack there of, when it's crappy and not sunny out. You know, like it was for half of our trip.

Since we had a rooftop area higher than most of the surrounding buildings, we were able to see that every house had at least one black metal silo thingy on top of it (so technical, I know).



We eventually came to realize that those thingys were actually water tanks - more specifically, heated water tanks. The thing is, they only get heated when they absorb heat during the day from the sun. So on the days that you actually need the warmth - you know, on the cool and rainy days - you don't have it. That shit is also cray.

Alas, as much as I'm apparently whining right now, I really kind of got used to it all. The cool water in the shower actually felt good with all the humidity. A bottle of water next to the sink solved the toothbrush issue. Massive amounts of bottled water ensured plenty of hydration. So it really wasn't that bad, it just put everything into perspective, you know? Well, except for the whole throw-your-toilet-paper-into-the-garbage-and-not-the-toilet-because-of-bad-plumbing thing. I wasn't a fan of that. I was so excited to finally use a "normal" bathroom in Charlotte for our layover back to DC, you have no idea. It was like heaven. In the form of a public toilet. I never thought I would utter those words.


So there you have it! A brief overview of the Foxy Friendymoon. With these out of the way, I'm hoping to start on some pre-caps and recaps soon enough!

Have you ever had to adjust and adapt to something when in another country? What was it and how'd it go for you?

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Das Friendymoon: Adventures!

If we're being completely honest, I was kind of surprised Foxy agreed to go to Mexico for our little post-wedding vacation. See, the man kind of hates all things hot, sunny, and beachy.. which are typically the first three words that come to my head when I think of Mexico. One thing I've learned over the past few years, though, is that he's a man of action. As long as he's occupied and doing something, he's typically ok regardless of the place or setting. I, on the other hand, am pretty go-with-the-flow and am happy just sitting on the beach *or* hiking up a mountain. Lazy or active, I'll take it if it means I'm on vacation!

I'd like to say that we fit a little bit of everything into our trip - which we totally did - but it was definitely heavy on the relaxation side. I blame it on tropical storm Debby that decided to literally rain on our parade. Debby Downer, if you will.


We all knew that we were going in the middle of hurricane season, but it really rained a lot. Not only did it downpour almost every night, but we lost a good two to three days of sun and adventures due to the nasty weather. It even took Bunny Love by surprise - she's gone down to Playa during this time of year at least a dozen times and said it has never been so crappy out as it was this past June. Ah, well. We managed to keep ourselves relatively entertained at the house for a bit.. but we were definitely feeling a bit of cabin fever after day one!

So what else to do but take to the streets and traipse around town during the day.. a little rain never hurt anyone, right?!

Well, maybe H-girl.

And at night, we went to the bar (well, just one night, really).

Foxy and I.. seconds before the evening downpour started.

Bunny Love in front, with her boyfriend and niece.

H-girl and I-man.

On the second gloomy day, the rain was a bit touch and go. We decided to see if we could outrun it by heading south to Tulum, which worked out well for a couple hours. We figured our best bet was to hit up Gran Cenote (seh-no-tay) - part of a large system of underwater caves that you can snorkel (or scuba) around in - perfect for a slightly gloomy day.  I was smart enough to ask to borrow my dad's sporty underwater camera before we left, so we got a few fun pictures of our time there!









Unfortunately, the lack of sun and on-and-off rain made it pretty chilly. It also made my lips turn a lovely shade of bluish purple for the next two hours.


Blue lips aside, it was a super fun time for a relatively crappy day!

Once the nicer weather finally decided to grace us with its presence, we headed out to place that we had been itching to go to since day one: Xel-Há!


The best way to describe Xel-Há is that it's like a natural water park - there was a lazy river, cliff jumping, snorkeling, water zip lining, etcetera and so forth. Oh, and it was also our one day of all-inclusive food and drink. So good.


The crew at the start of the lazy river!





Chimp jumping off the cliff!


We also have some pictures of us snorkeling, but they're on a film camera and need to be developed and I'm lazy.. so yea. Imagine some pretty fish underwater.

Image via Rotten Tomatoes

So.. what did we do when we finally had some uplanned warm, sunny, perfect weather days? Why, the beach, of course!!

Probably my favorite picture of Foxy. Ever.

The ladies.



Some beach-side noms.

We also spent one real (and incredibly windy) night out on the town, with a delicious Italian dinner followed by some drinks and dancing at a place called Blue Parrot (Foxy left after dinner.. he's not exactly a dancing type of guy)!




I, on the other hand, surely love me some dancing. No shame. Ever.

So all in all.. there were definitely some good times had by all, despite the rainy weather! What have been some of your favorite things to do on vacation?

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Das Friendymoon: Where We Stayed & Tasty Tacos

Oh hai. It's me, the recently married bee who's been all mopey about the wedding & planning being over. You know, the one who hasn't written much the last month and needs to get her act together? Yep. Let's try and change that.

First off, thank you for all your lovely comments and support in regards to my post-wedding blues last week. Writing that post and reading your thoughts seemed to provide a small amount of "closure" for me, if you will. I've decided that it's definitely mostly the planning and the doing that I miss, so now I just need to find things to keep myself busy during those times when I would normally be doing weddingy things. Maybe I'll finally get my lazy ass back to a dance class. Oooh, the possibilities.

Anyway, let's get this show on the road. The other week I was all, "oh hey look how awesome I pack for Mexico!" and then I just kind of left you hanging. Sorry about that.

So let's start with a quick flashback: back in April, brideslady M and I found an awesome little vacation-rental-by-owner place to stay in for her bachelorette party in NYC. It was such a good experience that I never, ever wanted to stay in a hotel again.

I continued with the trend for our recent Friendymoon in Playa del Carmen, Mexico - this time with the help of brideslady Bunny Love - and I am so, so happy to say that I'm still just as obsessed with and in total favor of the vacation rental thing. (So.. do it, 'kay? 'Kay.)

If you recall, the actual house we stayed at in Mexico was just beyond. There was more than enough room for the eight of us that went to have our privacy should we want it, and enough different yet convenient gathering places for us all to hang out together.


A small but secluded high-rise couch!

Morning yoga in the main living area!

Enjoying the rooftop jacuzzi/pool (and vino).

More rooftop pool, because I can't get enough.

Foxy's favorite spot, the quasi-outdoor lounge area.

Before we go any further, I feel like I should probably preface the rest of this post by saying that I've never stayed in an all-inclusive resort. I should also say that I'm not sure I would have enjoyed staying where we did as much if I didn't have brideslady Bunny Love with me most of the time, since she was only one of two people with us that was actually fluent in Spanish and could communicate and translate for us when necessary. I had my moments of sorta-accurate flashbacks to high school Spanish, but let's be real - I couldn't keep up 99% of the time. I started catching on a bit better by day 3 or 4, but it was no where near what it should have been or where I would have liked it to be.

So, a good tip: if you stay in the middle of a town like Playa - touristy or not - know at least the basics of the language. Just trust me on this one.

Now, Playa del Carmen is an interesting place in that it used to be a little fishing village, and has slowly but surely become more touristy and populated. This has led to some great little beachfront hotels, restaurants, clubs, and shops, as well as recent construction in other parts of the city of new houses, condos, and apartments similar to the one we stayed in.

Once you get away from the immediate beachfront and closer to the area where we were staying, you see a little more of the "real" side of Playa. We may have been staying in this gorgeous house, but across the street, you had relative poverty. Our neighbors had no real doors or windows - just different sheets to try and cover the openings. You would go through streets and see similar scenes - one house big and fancy, the next small and run down. Some cities have this variation by city blocks, Playa had it by individual houses. I'll admit, I actually liked being smack in the middle of it all - I feel like it really gave us a feel for the city that we were traipsing around in all week.

Across the street - in better shape here via Google Maps (2009) than when we were there.

Seeing as we were staying where we were, we clearly needed to travel in order to get to anywhere (namely the beach and the grocery store). This resulted in several spontaneous adventures around town, one being to find some tasty tacos. Actually, a lot were to find tasty tacos, because my husband is apparently obsessed. He got these random pregnant-woman cravings almost every day where we just had to to stop, drop, roll, and get. the boy. some. tacos. (I wasn't complaining.)

Unfortunately, I don't have pictures from the first (and by far, best) of the taco joints (it was literally the only time I didn't have my camera.. clearly learned my lesson there), but I was able to snap a picture of the store front later in the week.

El Sobrecito del Fogón
Translation: om nom nom nom

All you need to know: it's open air, hot as balls, they cook the food basically right in front of you, they have orgasmic pico de gallo, and their fresh juices are like nectar from the gods. Oh, and everything on the menu is like $2. Take that, Taco Bell.

We happened to find another tasty place on a random day trip to Tulum that I could easily say the same fantastical things about.

Beer is also like nectar from the gods, btw.

Flautas, pico de gallo, guac, & fajitas!

(There were a few other random, phenomenal taco joints that we stumbled upon as well, but all these pictures are making me super hungry and I need to stop staring at food right now. So, another tip: tacos. That is all.)

Another perk of being in the middle of the city is that it enabled us to walk around and explore some of the little stores and shops in the area. We ironically mostly stuck to the touristy ones, but it was still fun nonetheless.

I was in love with those jellyfish lanterns!

It was also kind of fun to bargain with the shop keep.. again, I felt better doing this when Bunny Love was with me - just because I think they took her more seriously than my pasty, non-fluent, American self. Either way. My favorite purchase by far was our blue woven blanket from Tulum for a reasonable $20!


I think I covered most of the basics of where we stayed.. the reason I even mention all of this is because I'm not sure we would have had the same experience had we been at an all-inclusive resort. Again, I've never stayed at one, but knowing myself.. if there's free food and booze, why would I ever leave? (Aside from a good taco search, that is).

Stick around for some more useful tidbits about our adventures and things I most definitely take for granted. Huzzah!


The crew on our first night out!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

The Friendymoon

Some might say honeymoon. We say post-wedding vacation, aka Friendymoon. But we'll get to that.

Mum has been the word on our potential honeymoon up until this point - I wish I could say it was a secret or a surprise, but really, we just had no darn clue what we were going to or even could do. Due to monetary restrictions, we figured we would need to keep it "local" - meaning, within the US. Now, this does not necessarily mean cheaper, as I have realized. Especially when you live in DC and decide that your top honeymoon destination is San Francisco/Napa & Sonoma Valley area. Those plane tickets are rarely cheap. Especially not during peak season. Shocker.

We decided that, if funds weren't going to allow us to travel out west, a good back up plan might be to do a bed and breakfast tour of the New England/Maine area; if we can't have wine, we'd be ok with lobster (and wine). We also decided not to think much about it until closer to the wedding, maybe three or four months out... which would be now.

Before I go much further, I also must share with you that I'm a big lover of all things beach, water, and warm. Last April, brideslady G and I went to Playa del Carmen, Mexico with our mutual friend Bear and it was the best. trip. ever. We've always wanted to go back, but timing hasn't been right.

Warning: gratuitous beachy BFF photo ahead:

Personal photo | Photo by Adrian Ibarra

Which brings us up to present day. Brideslady G came over to help with some wedding related DIY goodness, when she tells me her and her boyfriend bought tickets to go back to Mexico with Bear and his boyfriend, a fellow housemate, and G's cousin. Apparently they found a pimpin' four floor, 12 person penthouse in Playa that would cost each person about $300 for the week. The kicker? They are leaving a mere three days after mine and Foxy's wedding.

Do you see where this is going? You should. Because, after much consideration (like owing dumb amounts of taxes due to me being an independent contractor)..

Personal photo

..we decided that we will be joining in on the Mexico fun with everyone!! We will be responsible for plane tickets, our extremely minimal pay for the penthouse, some money towards food and alcohol for the week, then whatever extra for fun activities and souvenirs and such. I'm estimating no more than $2000 for a week of sand, sun, and absolute magic. Not bad. And oddly cheaper than going to California.

Thus, you now have the reason for dubbing this our post-wedding vacation, aka Friendymoon. Will we be with our friends? Yes. Will there be enough privacy for us should we want it? Yes. We don't need to do everything with our friends, which has been agreed upon by all parties involved. We still plan on one day taking an "official" honeymoon to Ireland or some other fun country, but for now, we'll be living it up in the sun with good friends and guaranteed good times. It couldn't be more perfect, and I'm pee-in-your-pants excited.

I mean, we have our own private rooftop jacuzzi. Just look.










All images via Maison Mauresque

Yep. Pimpin'.

Are you having an atypical honeymoon? Would you ever consider going with your friends if the deal was too good to pass up?